Can not go to events that have been planned because  the small choosy, which is a problem often
experienced by young parents. Even going to the office that has become a routine day-to-day was very difficult.

There are 4 causes of the small fussy when her parents left to go:

Parents too close
Proximity of parents and children need to feel protected children. However, if too close, children left to be difficult. Forms of proximity such as the attitude of parents to protect or who always accompany the child to go everywhere. Do not allow children to play with other people, for fear a child prankish also do not dare to make a child away from parents.

Too spoiled children
Spoil the child but may not be excessive. Usually parents spoil children to cover mistakes as they
often leave the occupation. This is not to make independent child until adulthood.

Experience traumatic
Sneak away their parents are considered to be the best solution so that the child is not choosy. While
this may cause trauma. Children find their parents disappeared suddenly and the next day the child will
hold dear life from his parents.

One solution is to cause a fuss child trust children to the environment since the baby. Parents should
prepare children for the capital to  independence.

Mother’s role
Mom’s breastfeeding a child since the beginning is the trust of children. But the mother needs to
realize that children should also know her, like a father, grandfather, grandmother, auntie or uncle,
also their nanny. Since when the baby is introduced to the various figures, the baby will have a courage to built environment more easily. Because it is mostly children who live in the family environment that is big enough to easily left at home.

The role of father
A father who had more interacted with the children will make the child more easly to face the stranger. This is importanly knowing the risk since the baby, the father has suggested with a small viscosity.

Start doing the role as a mother, such as home made food, replace the clothes, bathe, to play with the children. With the interaction, the child becomes clingy with their father. In its development the child is not easy to be afraid of strangers and not too sticky on the mother because the children are two different figures.

Here are some things that can make the small feel more calm when left at home that can be applied by other family members.

Communication
Try to communicate in children, husband and why you should go every day. Goal of these activities
in addition to making children understand why their parents work, children can also create a more
prepared mental time left.

Going out With Permission
Do not sneak away. This step is to make children feel calm because it does not often lies. As
a result, always appear some regret that fuss will trigger the child when parents do not have at home.

Divert attention
You can switch your fussy child giving activities. Involve yourself briefly and then you can say goodbye to go when the poppet is focused on the activities. Should select activities that are
preferred by the very small.

Consistent contact Your Baby
Although already feel a little quiet is not fussy, you still have to monitor the situation. Try to
contact by phone, although a small but smooth-talking has not it already can understand your greeting. With a voice you hear it you will feel affection although far away.