The young mother who has a new baby often be advice not too always hold babies, will make it intimate. In fact, the desire for a baby want to hold is natural.

During nine months in his mother’s womb, a baby in the cradle seems. So when was born, he was seeking the same comfort in holding by arms. According to Karen Sokal-Gutierrez, MD, the staff of School of Public Health, University of California Berkeley, said the baby under the age of three months is highly visible people who need help around there.

Various scientific studies show, when the babies cry and be immediately need a hold, give feeling safe. Stress and anxiety reduced and finally, the baby cry a little more. “So hold the baby crying is good, not to spoiled” he said. Furthermore, Gutierrez is also the Chairman of the Commission Early.

Adoption Childhood Care and dependent on the American Academy of Pediatrics that explains, in part medical experts call this period the child’s first three months of life the baby as a ‘fourth trimester of pregnancy‘. Young babies will feel more comfortable in the environment that similar maternal womb, a place where they by arms always close, always warm and tilt. So natural they feel safe and comfortable if just stay in these way.

But, after three months of age, babies want a little independent. They are still happy in moms hold, but sometimes also interested in observing and exploring around. Infants aged four months recumbent that can move arms and legs to reach. Or, prone to practice the head and chest.

He emphasized, and the parents of each baby is different. There are a myriad number of babies who need attention, there is a good time to sleep or play only your own. There are parents who do not hold-fed baby, want to have a baby to learn and play independently with their own bed. Different cultures have different habits too. Parents need to establish what is the appropriate and most feasible for them and the baby.

Also believed to hold the baby as a vital part of the plan in creating natural biological ties affection mother-baby, and very important for the development of trust, empathy, love mercy and conscience. “Research asserts hold the baby to develop human capacity and ingenuity in the infant trust, affection, intimacy, love and happiness,” he said.