Some parents tend to invent character names for their children, combining graphs, in a sort of anagram (word resulting from the transposition of letters by others). In the best case, they put the babies names of famous artists or labels that they remember their ancestors. The most fearful circumstance occurs when a male with female names baptized him and a girl put in a name ambiguous. Percy called, Anacleto, Hermenegildo, Ruperto, Theophilus, Ptolemy, Gumersindo, Florencio, Severino, Juvenal, Amadeo or Desideria can be embarrassing.
Psychoanalysts explain that this attitude is common among parents who subconsciously believe that by force of a name, their children will develop certain characteristics such as intelligence, strength, courage and sympathy. They want their children to be the extension of themselves, because that way their broken dreams can come true.
That the only thing that causes concern is that children are troubled when they meet the expectations of parents feel rejected and depressed by the malicious comments of those who mock tragedy.
The name is the sweetest word
Some adults who have names that do not like, repeatedly raised the possibility of changing. But the issue gets out of his hands when they realize they have serious conflicts with their official documents. Would have to change birth certificates, professional certificates, identity cards, passports, ID cards, etc..
People unhappy with their names try by all means to secure a substitute name or nickname to forget their problems. Such behavior is understood, and that his real name causes them frustration, insecurity and complexes that prevent full development. I am reminded of a girl whose name is Helen Cross and calls himself “Tata”. I think she is unaware that his name is stronger than the moniker you use. The word “Tata” simply has no gender, no meaning.
Individuals can become insolent to hurt subjects who dislike their names and hit the self-esteem. Nobody likes his name provokes derision from others. Those who are more affected by this situation is to children and adolescents, and have not yet established their personalities and the complex and are weighed down by insecurity, introducing problems of identity, coupled with family and social trouble.
If you feel shame for his name and calls himself instead of Luis Nepomuceno, think that although the procedures are long can choose to legalize their new condition. Although defying the will of their parents. The first step is to go to a civil court judge or family and ask for the rectification of the name in the Registry Office in your area.
The person concerned can hire a lawyer, who provided the names of some witnesses and official documents such as driver’s license, school certificates and even birth certificates. Usually the trial takes six months to a year, although this varies from country to country.